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Kaleidoscope Radio


A show about sex, love & relationships

Sex advice, sex in the news, random facts about sex and sexuality along with surprise expert guests

Aug 24, 2017

Dana Pharant is a former dominatrix. After finding the kink world and playing within it for years, she decided to move on and take off of the valuable lessons with her. Her time in kink allowed her to move beyond things in her past, rise above self judgment, and come to a place where she realized “I'm not broken, I'm not fucked up”. It also gave her an awareness of energy, Since then, she has been helping other women tap into their own Inner Dominatrix in order to live more bold, sexy and fun filled lives.

 

Summary

Dana talks about how she found the kink world, where she was when she had first explored it as a topic of interest, her first party and where things went from there. She describes her first BDSM experience on the receiving end, and what made her want to step into the dominant role.

She shares what it was like when she finally decided to transition out of the dominatrix role. She talks about the feelings she started getting when it was time to leave, and the shift within herself and the community that started to occur. She also talks about how she was able to transfer a lot of what she had learned, and who she had become into what she's doing today.

Dana explains a couple of the steps women can take to step into their inner dominatrix energy, and shares a behind the curtain at what's coming up with another dominatrix she's collaborating with.

 

Quotes

“That experience was incredible. I had this really deep dropping into my body like a spiritual experience.”

“You could be in a room with a thousand people watching, but nothing exists except for you and your play partner.”

“Beating people for a living is a lot of work”

“I got what I needed out of that community. It wasn't meant to be a lifetime things for me.”

“If you're not authentically in there, they know.”

 

Links

www.innerdomintrix.com